Family Law

Is it Time to Separate?

By Erin Kelley

Most couples experience ups and downs in a marriage. During the down times, many may question the relationship and consider if it is time to separate.

Over time, couples can grow apart, and an evaluation of the relationship may help determine if it’s worth salvaging. Some key issues to consider may include:

• Do you and your spouse genuinely enjoy each others company?

• Do you still share the same goals?

• Does negativity dominate the relationship?

• Do you and your spouse still share trust and understanding?

• Do you and your spouse respect each other?

• Are you and your spouse able to discuss and resolve differences?

• Do you and your spouse have a regular sex life?

Considering all aspects of your relationship can help you make a decision about whether it may be time to separate. If the negatives far outweigh the positives, it may be clear that the time has come to split. However, if children are involved or other issues complicate a relationship, the decision may be more difficult.

Sometimes family counseling may put a relationship back on track if both parties are willing to invest time and effort into improving the relationship. If it’s not possible to repair the relationship, it may be time to consult a local divorce lawyer.

Want to speak with a legal professional about legal separation and other divorce options? Find a divorce attorney in your area.

Full post as published by The Divorce Blog on February 16, 2009 (boomark / email).